Hey Steve. You guys will love Red River. Bring sport and trad gear since there is an abundance of equally good routes for both. The camping where all climbers stay is Miguell's Pizza. It's very cheap (1$/person/night), a nice friendly environment, central to all the great climbing and showers on site. Plus they have amazing Pizza. Check out
http://www.redriverclimbing.com for some good beta. It is also a good idea to read up on that site for recent closures. They have countless access issues with the gas industry down there. I think you can buy the new guidebook from MEC. Here is a short list of great routes not to be missed:
RoShampo 5.12a
Fuzzy Undercling 5.11b
Sunshine 5.9+
Moonbeam 5.9
Rock Wars 5.10a
Another Doug Read Route 5.11b
Twinkie 5.12a
Note: keep in mind that a 5.12a overhanging route has no moves harder than 5.10 for most routes. Grades are bassed on pump factor on alot of the steep routes.