Good luck picking a camera Scott!! The options are endless and often there aren't alot of differences between cameras. I've always been a Nikon shooter, but I know Canon has some awesome DSLRs too.
Another site to check out might be
http://www.dpreview.com but don't bother reading the "User Reviews".
My advice:
If you can, buy a camera locally with a good return policy, shoot as much as you can under all conditions in the first few days and if you're not 100% happy, take it back and try something else. In my opinion, trial and error is the best method.
Have fun! I'm jealous - I wish I was camera shopping too!
ps: If you end up with a Nikon, I have some awesome lenses you can try!